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Pineapple links Swinger Hookup Cards are a useful tool to help swingers connect with other potential play partners quickly and easily.
A Swinger is a person who is part of a couple who engages in recreational sex with another couple, individual, or group with their partner. Swinging is a form of ENM (Ethical Non-monogamy).
Swingers are generally:
Nowadays, swingers generally find each other online through swinger websites or social media, at swinger parties, swinger clubs, or swinger events.
The best ways to find and connect with swingers is:
With today's technology, it is easy to find swingers in your area online. Websites such as SLS.com, Kasidie.com, Fetlife.com, SDC.com, and AdultFriendFinder.com are among the most notable and legitimate swinger hookup websites. Additionally, there are many Facebook groups for swingers to meet and share pics, chat with, and PM others who consent (search FB for 'swinger group', pineapple lifestyle, upsidedown pineapple, etc.). Most social media platforms now have sizeable swinger groups.
Swinger parties are a great way to meet new and experienced swingers. Swinger parties are no-pressure events where you can 'play' (engage in sexual activity), or just mingle and watch. Swingers can hand out Pineapple Links Cards to anyone they are interested in at swinger parties.
Swinger clubs are clubs designed for meeting and playing with (have sex with) other swingers on-site. Often setup like a typical bar or dance club, swinger clubs bring together like-minded people in an environment that allows sexual activity on the premises. Swingers clubs usually have multiple play rooms, beds, and other areas to engage in sexual activity. Similar to a swinger party, at swinger clubs you can just mingle, watch, or have sex. Either way, there is no pressure, everyone takes things at their own pace. Swingers can hand out Pineapple Links Cards to anyone they are interested in at swinger clubs.
There are many swingers events that cater to the swinger lifestyle such as swinger cruises, hotel take-overs, holiday parties (halloween, NYE, 4th of July, etc) as well as 'Meet and Greets' where swinger couples and unicorns (single female swingers) can meet in person in a low pressure neutral setting like a bar or park. At these events, people can several potential 'play partners' in one shot, make connections, and plan future play dates (sex dates). Swinger events are the perfect setting to connect with others using Pineapple Links Cards to express interest in them for a later date.
One of the first things new swingers discover is how normal swingers are. Swingers are teachers, doctors, medical workers, executives, waitresses, bartenders, plumbers, soccer moms, you name it. Additionally, participating in the swinger lifestyle can be expensive with attending parties, events, and clubs requiring fees to attend, booking hotels (if you travel to swing), and membership fees of online swinger websites.
Hence, many swingers are educated and financially well off.
As a general rule, YES. Experienced swingers understand the need for safe sex. In fact, most experienced swingers will not even 'play' with a male swinger without protection (condoms). If a swinger encourages another swinger to play without a condom, that is a red flag that this person engages in unnecessary risky sexual activity and may be prone to STI's.
No, in fact, most experienced swingers are very picky, the same as any other human. Generally, when women are involved in decision making regarding sex, the requirements go beyond the typical male version (she's hot, I'd do her). Therefore, couples in the swinging lifestyle will vet potential play partners much more intensely than a single person, until they find a person or people they are BOTH very comfortable with.
No, there are two types of swingers: Soft swap, and Full swap. Soft swap swingers only engage in kissing, touching, oral, anything except penetration. Full Swap Swingers engage in full penetration (actual sex). These labels can change at any time, meaning, a swinger can decide to be soft swap or full swap at any time.
Yes, although this is not a requirement in the swinger lifestyle, there is always an opportunity to participate in orgies if you prefer.
No. Swingers come in all shapes and sizes. Although being attractive is always a plus, being attractive is not so important to most swingers. What IS important is hygiene and personality! Swingers pay a lot of attention to hygiene, because, honestly, a bad smell can ruin an experience. So if you do plan to attend a swinger event, be sure you shower beforehand. This may seem obvious, but we have mentioned it here for good reason. 'nuff said.
Yes. In the United States, the 'Upsidedown pineapple' is the 'secret' symbol recognized by swingers. Often, the pineapple will be used right-side-up to avoid questions from 'Vanilla' people (non-swingers), but it will still pique the interest of other swingers. Either way, the pineapple is a way swingers express their connection to this lifestyle. You may see it displayed as a car window decal, drinking cup, tshirt, tattoo, etc.
We think this was best answered by Relationship Therapist Heather Converse: "Swingers tend to focus more on compersion, (The state of being happy for another person’s happiness) and less on jealousy. When you see your spouse dancing their favorite dance with someone else, you probably don’t feel very jealous. Swingers separate sex from romance. They see sex more as just another physical activity like dancing or playing basketball. People in consensual non-monogamous relationship take pleasure from seeing their spouses enjoy life."
No. Cheating is when you lie to your partner about your interest in another. Swinging is when you and your partner both agree to have sex with others as a couple. The swinging lifestyle is based on total honesty (my spouse and I have had access to each other's cell phone passwords for years...nothing to hide).
Yes, Pineapple Links Swinger Hookup Cards make it much easier for newbies in the swinger lifestyle to meet new people at events, a swinger party, social events, etc. If you are shy, or just want to make more potential connections in the allotted time, Pineapple LInks Swinger Cards allows you to connect with multiple people in a shorter amount of time. All you have to do is give someone a Pineapple LInks card...the rest just naturally happens.
If you are new to swinging, you would benefit from listening to educational podcasts about the swinger lifestyle to first educate yourself on standard rules (No means No, No touching without asking, etc). Joining a swinger website such as sls.com, kasidie.com, fetlife.com, etc. You can use your real name or a pseudonym (fake name), and any type of profile pic you feel comfortable with. You will be surprised at the acceptance you will receive from the community, swingers are generally nice, welcoming people (having lots of good sex will do that to you).
No, swinging and open relationships are not the same. Open relationships are relationships in which one or both partners can pursue sex, and sometimes emotional attachments, with other people, WITHOUT their partner. In the Swinging lifestyle, partners have consensual sex TOGETHER with other people at parties, clubs, events, or 'dates'. These relationships are purely sexual for the purpose of pleasure.
No, the swinger lifestyle is purely recreational. Swingers have sex for fun and pleasure. Polyamory is when a couple or person establishes romantic relationships with multiple people with consent, often forming strong emotional bonds and sometimes even love. For example, if a couple says, "we have a girlfriend", they are polyamorous, since all parties have agreed that the new woman is 'their' girlfriend. Polygamy is when a person has multiple spouses. Polyamory and Polygamy both involve emotional ties not present in the swinging lifestyle.
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